I get so tired of these ridiculous questions.
It’s none of anyone’s business WHY someone else has my nudes. The question is, why did they feel they had the right to distribute them elsewhere. Why did they feel they had the right to disparage me, as a person, because of something they at one time appreciated?
It’s no different than when I hear someone say, oh so and so couldn’t be a rapist, they would never have to rape anyone. They could have anyone they wanted.
Please excuse me while I throw up. Rape isn’t about sex, it’s about power and control. All rapists aren’t quasimodo like creatures lurking in the dark. A lot of them are handsome, charming, and well off. None of that changes the fact they are rapists.
Thank you for sharing this horrific experience. My hope, as when I share what I’ve been through, is it helps someone.