Absolutely love this. Though I’m married to someone 15 years my junior, I can completely understand where you’re coming from.

When I was frequenting swinger’s clubs, I experienced similar reactions. I’m a bigger girl anyway, so I’ve almost always had stretch marks. I just got more after having kids. I had more younger guys make comments about them than older. And they all were quickly dismissed. Same with what I consider backhanded compliments.

Yes, I’m a mom. Yes, I enjoy myself. The two don’t have a damn thing to do with one another.

Thanks for sharing!

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