And watch them leave, quickly! They will not talk about it. My ex husband was excommunicated after being a life long JW. He was never again allowed contact with his father, siblings, or his daughter. He was 35 years old and lost everyone who had ever meant anything to him, simply because he dared stand up for someone being molested. Every ex JW female I know left because of the insane amount of sexual abuse within their community. They sweep it all under the rug, and whatever the Elders decide is law.