You definitely don’t need to turn in any card. You are still just as badass, even more so.
What we enjoy in bed has nothing to do with who we are as people outside the bedroom. Most people who identify as submissive in the BDSM community are in high stress, powerful positions in the regular world.
Having your pussy spanked doesn’t mean you want to be beaten, spanked, or hit in any other way. And any man or woman who thinks that has issues that need unpacking in therapy.
Thank you for sharing this.