I think it’s more than okay. I tell my 18 year old all the time, let’s get through today, tomorrow will work itself out.
We recently worked on 6 month, 1 year, 2 year, 3 year, then 5 year plans for him. It was stressful for him. I told him look, things can change, none of this is set in stone. Think of it as an idea of what you hope to happen. It’s fluid. You can change it based on what you decide later. No worries.
I hope it made him feel better.
Thank you for sharing.