James has it right, I think. Yes, you’re my dear friend, but I try hard not to be an enabler. But I still think he’s 100% correct. Dude is a straight up asshole. He knew what he was doing. He admitted he’d done this before. And I’m so angry for you!! He chose someone who is beautiful, empathetic, and just an all around wonderful person. And he did it with malicious intent.
I will never judge you. We all need to feel loved, desired, beautiful, wanted.
And you are. ❤ ❤