Jordan, please get out of my head. It is beginning to get a bit disconcerting. Ha! I have been struggling with this for the past couple of days!! Currently, my in laws plus my sister-in-law are staying with us. The struggle is REAL. My sister-in-law is the most entitled, self-centered, lazy person I think I have met in my entire life. I swear I have a constant internal monologue going, “Orange is not my color”, “You are working daily to remove the negative from your life. It’s her problem, not yours.” “Not your circus, not your monkeys.” It devolves from there into words best not repeated!
I just have to keep looking up, as you said, and try to be helpful. It is not easy, that’s for sure. I commend you for continuing the struggle.