Not completely, but I work hard on them every single day. I am not sure that I will ever completely overcome them, but I know that I want to.
My instincts arose not just from being queer, but also from systematic abuse having nothing to do with being queer. Add the two together, and you get a whole ball of fucked up. I’m sure many here understand. It’s a slippery slope, but there is healing to be had, with a lot of work and understanding people in your life.