This is absolutely beautiful, Elle.

Thank you for sharing such an intimate piece. Having been involved in this lifestyle for many years, I agree you’ve explained the roles so well and the feelings that go a long with them

I’m a true switch. I love playing both roles. And you’re right, being the Dominant is a big job. It’s demanding in ways people can’t understand unless they’ve done it, and done it right.

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