You’re correct, it is a two way street.

But I’ve also learned over the years that me, as a woman, trying to tell most men how to do something (listen more, etc.) works about as well as talking to a brick wall.

Rather than come off as a nagging broad, I’ll leave that to their wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers, etc.

For my part, I talk to my husband about what I need, in and out of bed. I also make a point to teach my male children how important it is to listen. I’ve told them all since they could understand me, “We have two ears and one mouth for a reason”

I don’t believe that educating women to stand up for themselves and speak their truth is putting an onus on them by any means. I think it just helps sometimes to hear from someone else that it’s okay to ask for what you want. That’s what I’m trying to accomplish here, anyway.

Thank you for your response!

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